I get where you're coming from. A lot of the time I wish I could just be a girl. And I want to give up binding and worrying about my voice and my sneeze and my laugh and trying to read people. Because after all of that people still think I'm a girl and I feel like I'm doing a lot of work for nothing.
But uh, as someone on here told me. Sometimes the easy way out is also the most painful. I tend to agree with that. And it won't be this hard forever, remember that.
I get where you are coming from and I have felt like this many many times.But ultimately the only way to ever be happy and comfortable being gay is to come out and live a gay life.Meet other gay people and be yourself.
This may seem like some hypocritical advice coming from me since I am still partially closeted.But I know that when I am surrounded by the few other gay people I know, I feel ok.I feel normal.I feel free,and it is what ultimatly is pushing me to live my life as myself and not want to stay closeted forever.I hope this makes sense to you.Take care.
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I get where you're coming from. A lot of the time I wish I could just be a girl. And I want to give up binding and worrying about my voice and my sneeze and my laugh and trying to read people. Because after all of that people still think I'm a girl and I feel like I'm doing a lot of work for nothing.
But uh, as someone on here told me. Sometimes the easy way out is also the most painful. I tend to agree with that. And it won't be this hard forever, remember that.
I get where you are coming
I get where you are coming from and I have felt like this many many times.But ultimately the only way to ever be happy and comfortable being gay is to come out and live a gay life.Meet other gay people and be yourself.
This may seem like some hypocritical advice coming from me since I am still partially closeted.But I know that when I am surrounded by the few other gay people I know, I feel ok.I feel normal.I feel free,and it is what ultimatly is pushing me to live my life as myself and not want to stay closeted forever.I hope this makes sense to you.Take care.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent-Eleanor Roosevelt
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sorry kiddo. not exactly your choice. But yeah, I know. Its kind of screwed if you are,and screwed when you try not to be. so yeah, it sucks.