
K so this is how it goes:
I met this amazing girl my sophmore yr in high school and we dated for 4 months until i had 2 unfortunately break up with her becuz our realationship was really screwing up her life & her grandma(her guardian) hated me. A month later she went out with this horrible guy that hated me , i was heartbroken and came to realization that i juss couldnt live w/o her and i had made a HUGE mistake. I got the nerve 2 tell her how i felt and she confessed that she was still in love with me and she was only goin out w/ this jerk to please her homophobic grandma. How ever she couldn't break up w/ him, becuz he and his loserass friends started threatening her by saying that they would tell her grandma about me and she wud be the most hated person ever. Finally the worst happened they began attacking me and my parents found out and immediately pulled me outta school and they completely cut off my connection with her. For 3 months we were kept from each other until we found each other sumhow. We both confessed that we were still very much in love w/ each other and decided to get back together...long story short:we're now in a complicated long distance relationship as if that wasn't bad enough, my parents now hate her and her grandma doesn't knowabout me .therefore i am the secret gf and to be honest its no fun =[
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unhealthy??
yeah thats does sound no fun...but honestly secret relationships r unhealthy....especially if it one sided as like only one person is secret....
Theres always something to laugh about in life...Theres always something to laugh about in life...
sigggh tell me about it
sigggh tell me about it =[
now my mom hates her with a passion and the situation is even worse...but i love her with a passion
sigggh tell me about it
sigggh tell me about it =[
now my mom hates her with a passion and the situation is even worse...but i love her with a passion
I have never been in that
I have never been in that type of situation, so I'm not sure what to tell you, but I'm so sorry people are holding you back so much.
It seems like the root of what is keeping you two secret is completely centered around her grandmother. Is there any way she could talk to her grandma and show her that by separating you two, she is only making her unhappy? Obviously its a lot harder to sway the mind of a 60-80 *no idea* year old than say, a 12 year old.
Not sure what to tell you but hang in there =/
EXACTLY!! thank u, and i'm
EXACTLY!! thank u, and i'm gnna take on that grandma sooneror later(no not that way lol)
Haha. I was gonna say..
Haha. I was gonna say.. maybe her grandma's time is.. almost up?
But I figured it was too insensitive to say out loud =P
Duuude That sucks. :(
Duuude
That sucks. :(
& its only gotten worse her
& its only gotten worse her grandma finally caught her and now theres a chance i may never see my princess =[